Statistically, the most dangerous time for the abused person is when they are fleeing the violent situation. If at all possible, try and prepare by taking the following steps:
- Contact your local crisis center to speak to an advocate; Serenity's 24 hour hotline is (870) 424-SAFE (7233)
- Develop a safety plan by:
- Putting away an emergency fund of cash
- Obtaining copies of documents such as
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- Passports
- Driver’s license
- Birth certificates for yourself and child(ren) if applicable
- Immunization records
- Pack a suitcase with basic clothing and hygiene needs for yourself and child(ren) that is easily accessible in an emergency
- Develop a code word for your family and friends to let them know you may be in danger
- Educate yourself about the legal system (i.e. protective orders, legal remedies for immigrants, etc.)
Sexual Abuse
The term "sexual abuse" covers a wide spectrum of actions - physical and emotional - that the abuser may attempt to use on the victim.
- Sexual assault: forcing someone to participate in unwanted, unsafe or degrading sexual activity. Coercion by threats and/or manipulation such as accusing the survivor of cheating or infidelity. Sexual harassment: ridiculing another person to try to limit their sexuality or reproductive choices
- Sexual exploitation (such as forcing someone to look at pornography, or forcing someone to participate in pornographic film-making)
- Withholds sex and affection as punishment
- Calls person offensive sexual names
- Engages in sexual relationships outside of the marriage or monogamous relationship
- Denies contraception or protection against a sexually transmitted infection
